December 15, 2007

I wanted to quit my life....................!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today I decided to quit...
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I went to the woods to have one last talk with GOD.
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"GOD", I said.
"Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"
His answer surprised me...
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"Look around", GOD said.
"Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"

"Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds,
I took very good care
of them. I gave them light.
I gave them water.
The fern quickly grew from
the earth. Its brilliant green covered the floor.
Yet nothing came
from the bamboo seed.
But I did not quit on the bamboo.
In the second year
the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
And again, nothing came from
the bamboo seed.
But I did not quit on the bamboo."
GOD said.

"In year three there was still nothing
from the bamboo seed.
But I would not quit.

In year four, again, there was nothing
from the bamboo see.
I would not quit." GOD said.

"Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout
emerged from the earth. Compared
to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. ..
But just 6months later the bamboo rose to
over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five
years growing roots.
Those roots made it strong and gave it what it
needed to survive.
I would not give any of my creations
a challenge it could not
handle." GOD said to me.

"Did you know, that all this time you
have been struggling,
you have actually been growing roots?"

"I would not quit on the bamboo.
I will never quit on you."

"Don't compare yourself to others." GOD said.
"The bamboo had a different purpose than the fern.
Yet they both make the forest beautiful."

"Your time will come", GOD said to me.
"You will rise high"

"How high should I rise?" I asked.

"How high will the bamboo rise?" GOD asked in return.

"As high as it can?" I questioned

"Yes." GOD said,
"Give me glory by rising as high as you can."

I left the forest and bring back this story.
I hope these words can help you
see that GOD will never give up on you.

GOD will never give up on you

"Life is not a problem to be solved, but a gift to be enjoyed"

December 12, 2007

YHAI Leh-Ladakh Mountain Biking Expedition 2007

YHAI National Himalayan Mountain Biking Expedition at Leh-Ladakh in Jammu & Kashmir during August - September, 2007

20/8/2007
Jammu Tawi express boarded at 7.30 am from Bandra Terminus. My Dad came to drop me. Finally I, Rupal, Prutha left for our Leh expedition. Hiren boarded the train from Surat at 12.30 pm.


21/8/2007

Reached Chakki bank at 1.00 pm. Went from Chakki Bank to Pathankot by rickshaw paying Rs. 100/-. They charge Rs.10 per passenger. The taxi is too expensive from Chakki bank. The taxi price was Rs.3,500/- after discount. So we hired a taxi (Tata Indica) in the market for Rs.2,800/-. Left Pathankot for Manali at 2.15pm by Tata Indica - N.K. Tours & Travels. Our driver was Kuldeep Singh. Had lunch at Hotel Jyoti in Pathankot at 3.30pm. The food was pathetic, only toilets were good. Then left for Manali at 4.00 pm. Had a halt for dinner at Dear & Dear Restaurant at 10.00 pm. I had lot of pit problem. So had to halt many times during the journey. Reached Manali at 1.45 am. Checked in Hotel Aroma. First he said 450/-. We decided finally on 350/- for double bed room. Check out 12.00 noon.


22/8/2007
We left for paragliding at 11.30 am. Mr. Bunty from Northern Adventure Tours arranged the trip for us. He charged us 4,000/- for 3 persons with transportation. We left for Nagra Valley at 12.45pm. Nagra is 22kms from Manali. We saw beautiful sunflowers very huge in size & lot of apples on the way. My pilot was Tensing who had 10 yrs paragliding experience. The valley was about 1000 ft high. The experience was thrilling & excellent. Then we booked our seats for Leh with Valleycon Travels near behind the bus-stop. He had 4 seats available in a mini-bus booked by some foreigners. He charged us 800/- per person. The bus will come at 2.00 am & reach Leh at 6.30 pm. Then we had lunch at Hotel Sagar veg restaurant. The food is too good. Then in the evening we went for shopping. I bought a doll & Art piece.


23/8/2007

We left for Leh at 2.00 am in the morning by Mini bus. It was a 12 seater bus including driver. The scenery is just excellent on the way to Leh. It is worth seeing it!!!! If you plan to go to Ladakh I think it is best to go by road from Manali to Leh. I pat myself for this wise decision. The scenery is breath taking. We had a halt at Tangalala, the second highest motorable road of the world. The climate was too cold there. We reached Leh at 8.30 pm. Checked in Hotel Zar-La. Mr. Ghulam Mohammed guided us to the hotel & helped us to reach the destination. In the evening we had lot of difficulty to find a veg restaurant for dinner. All veg restaurants were closed. Finally we had dinner in a mix restaurant. I had grilled sandwich.


24/8/2007

We reported at YHAI at 10.00 am. The reporting was at Semnet Guest House. That day was a rest day & we were not even allowed to go outside. The vegetation in the garden was amazing. We enjoyed sunflowers & colourful flowers by observing them in the guest house garden.


25/8/2007

Today was also the rest day. After lunch & rest we went to the market at 5.00 pm. I & Hiren went for the cultural show at Tibetan Kitchen at 6.00 pm. But unfortunately the show was cancelled as there were only 2 of us to see the show. Then all of us roamed the streets of Leh. Everything is too expensive at Leh. All the things are from Nepal & Tibet and the prices are double for everything. We bought a ladakhi style pant for Rs.220/- each. Today was also the flag off for first batch of YHAI in the morning. Today I called up Mom & I came to know that Dad has meet with an accident. So I was a little upset. But the day was good. We had apple juice, it tasted really good. The shop we bought pants from told us that the three most important things here are: eat butter in the breakfast for throat, drink lots of water & drink apple juice after dinner. The temperature is -35 C in winters but there is no snowfall in Leh. Then we inquired for River Rafting. They have two main routes for 1 day rafting: Phey to Nimo Rs.900/- & Chilling to Nimo Rs.1,400. Phey to Nimo is grade 2 - 2.5 on Indus River & Chilling to Nimo is grade 3 - 3.5 on Zanskar river.


26/8/2007

Today we went for an aclimitization walk to the Leh Palace. It was an excellent view of the Leh city from the top. Then we had bath at Hotel Zar-La as there was acute shortage of water at YHAI base camp. He charged us Rs.30/- per person. Then we had an orientation at 3.00 pm. Shalini became our group leader. I was made the environment leader. Our group of 12 participants was amazing. I, Rupal, Prutha, Shalini from Mumbai; Hiren from Surat; Kripan & Sandeep from Calcutta; Yadav from UP; Alkesh from Nagpur; Robin from Delhi & to be doctor Nidhin & Sharad. The group was very diverse & we all jelled along well. The best part was all were between 20-30 age group. Then in the evening we went to the market. Eagerly waiting for the expedition to start.


27/8/2007

Today it was cycling aclimitization. We were asked to choose our bicycle. I was feeling it very tough & difficult. But Hiren helped me a lot to choose the best bicycle. Then in the evening we went to search for hand gloves. Finally after roaming for two hours we found one. Then we had Gol Gapa & dinnner.


28/8/2007

Today the expedition started. We left Leh at 7.30 am. The initial biking was good but when the uphill started it was getting difficult. Total was 42kms. We reached Basgo at 6.30 pm. We had lunch at Gurudwara on th way at 14,000 ft. It was too good. At last it was too difficult for me. Then, Alkesh took my cycle at last. It was too difficult for me to pull it any further. At Basgo camp we meet Hungarians staying in Japan: Balaz & Olga.


29/8/2007

Today was the trek from Basgo to Nurla. The start was a little not little very difficult. Then there was a slope - downhill. The last 6km I & Rupal went by truck. We reached Nurla base camp at 3.30 pm. It was the most beautiful camp.


30/8/2007

We left for Lamayuru from Nurla. It was the most interesting route. The last 7 kms we had to go by a tempo or a truck. We left our bicycles down & boarded a tempo for Lamayuru. We visited the Lamayuru Monastery. It had its own beauty. Then we had dinner and played cards. The lost interesting was the moonrise. It was the best natural beauty I had seen till date.


31/8/2007

We left from Lamayuru to Nurla. Reached Nurla by 2.30 pm. Then headed towards the lakeside restaurant.


1/9/2007

Started for Leh in the morning at 7.30 am. Started cycling & then boarded a bus halfway upto Basgo. Rested a while at Basgo & then left for Leh. On the way took a military van upto Gurudwara. Had lunch at Gurudwara & then left for Leh. Went in a truck and unfortunately the truck dropped us 10 kms away from Leh. On the way visited Hall of Fame. The museum is amazing. It still has all the things of Pakistani soldiers displayed in the museum. Worth visiting!!! Finally we completed the expedition successfully.


2/9/2007

Today we did White water rafting from Chilling to Nimo. Left at 12.30 pm for Nimo. Collected the raft from here and headed towards Chilling. Started river rafting at 3.00 pm. We were 9 of them. I, Rupal, Prutha, Hiren, Kripan, Yadav, Sandeep, a lady from Poland & the guide Kalu. It was a great experience for all of us. Then we had dinner at Leh veg restaurant. Then we celebrated farewell. Then we collected our certificates and started packing our bags to leave the next day in the morning with lots of memorable moments with us.


3/9/2007
Kalu had told us during rafting that the cost for a second hand raft is around 1.5L to 2L & a new one around 5L in Nepal. He was from Nepal. He stays 2 months in Leh, 5 months in Rishikesh & other time in Nepal. We left for Srinagar at 6.00 am bus of J & K STRC. The cost of ticket was Rs.620/- per person. We are taking with us all the lovely memories of heavenly Leh-Ladakh with us. These 11 days at Leh were the most amazing days life had unfolded for me.
Thank you GOD & LIFE for this wonderful experience of my life which I will cherish throughout my lifetime. The night halt was at Drass. In Drass there is hardly electricity. We got a three bedded room for Rs.300/-in Hotel Hill View. Had dinner at Drass at 8.30 pm.


4/9/2007

The beauty on the way to Srinagar was very beautiful. My heart was beating very fast when the bus was passing through the narrow roads. Deep valleys on one side & huge rocks on the other. Heard about Kashmir a lot but never knew will visit Kashmir so soon. One thing is true - believe in your dreams & they will come true. Reached Srinagar at 10.15 am. Had started from Drass at 4.30 am. First the environment was a little uncomfortable. Muslims all around, every few minutes an army personnel standing with AK-47, protests happening……Then searched for Hotel. We saw a few hotels & houseboats. Then finally landed at Hotel Mirage, YHAI accomodation. It is Rs.500 for a double bedded room. But only 2 persons can stay in a room. For each extra person it is Rs.270/-. The accomodation is excellent. The hostel is new. It just opened on 24th Aug 2007. then we had a Shikara ride in the evening at Dal Lake. Even that experience was great. The beauty of Dal Lake is excellent.


5/9/2007

First in the morning we celebrated Rupal'
s birthday. Then we went to Krishna Dhaba to have lunch. The best place for vegetarians to have food. Then we rented an Autorickshaw from autostand for a day tour. He charged us Rs.500/-. We started at 1.00 pm. First he took us to Sankar Acharya Temple - Shiv Temple built in 5th BC by Pandavas. The we went to Cheshmashahi, one of the Mughal Garden. Nobody knows where the water in the cheshmashahi comes from. It is flowing all the 365 days of the year. Then we went to Nishat, the next Mughal Garden. Then we went to Shalimar Garden. There we clicked photos by wearing Kashmiri dresses. Need to be very careful from these photographers. They charge Rs.40/- per photo. We told him to click one photo for each one of us. But he kept on clicking different photos & then asked us to pay for all. So be very careful!!!!!! Then we went to Hazrat Bal. It’s a beautiful mosque. Then finally went back to Krishna Dhaba to have dinner & went back to Mirage.


6/9/2007

Left for Srinagar Airport in the morning. Our flight was at 10.30 am for Mumbai. Again an experience for me as it was first flight of my life. Enjoyed each
moment in the flight by gazing the beautiful sky & the feeling of you being above the sky is worth cherishing. Reached Mumbai at 1.30 pm & back to

Home Sweet Home !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

December 4, 2007

Beautiful Article - Respect "HER"

This is a beautiful article: The woman in your life...very well expressed...

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well. Here is a girl,

Who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name;


One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain;

To be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;


One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;


One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this......

Please appreciate "HER" I hope you will do....

August 15, 2007

THE SPEAKING TREE - Four Mudras Of Tantra

Tantra talks about four seals, four mudras. To attain to the ultimate, a person passes through four doors; he has to open four locks. Those four locks are called four mudras.

The first mudra is karma mudra. It is the outermost door, the periphery of your being. Karma means action, is the outermost core of your being. What you do is your periphery. You hate or kill somebody, you love or protect somebody. Action is the outermost part of your being.
The first seal is opened through becoming total in your action. Whatsoever you do, do totally, and there will arise great joy, not by repeating some mantra, but by doing it totally. If you are angry, be totally angry; and be fully aware of your anger, anger will disappear one day. You have understood it. It can be dropped now. Anything that is understood can be dropped easily. Only non-understood things go on hanging around you. Remember, Tantra is scientific. It does not say: Repeat a mantra. It says: Become aware in your action.

The second seal is called gyana mudra — a little deeper and more inner than the first — that is somewhat like knowledge. Action is the outermost thing, knowledge is a little deeper. You can watch what i am doing, you cannot watch what i am knowing. Knowing is inner.
Now, start knowing what you really know, and stop believing things which you really don’t know. Somebody asks you “Is there a God?” and you say “Yes, God is”. Do you really know? If you don’t know, please don’t say that you do. Say “I don’t know”. If you are honest and you only say what you know, and you only believe what you know, the second lock will be broken. False knowledge is the enemy of true knowledge. And all beliefs are false knowledge; you simply believe them. Out of a hundred things you will be unburdened of almost 98. Only a few things will remain that you really know. You will feel great freedom. Your head will not be so heavy. And with that freedom and weightlessness you enter the second mudra.

The third mudra is called samaya mudra. Samaya means time. Knowledge has disappeared, you are only in the now; only the purest of time has remained. Watch, meditate over
it. In the now-moment, there is no knowledge. Knowledge is always about past. Just this moment, what do you know? Nothing is known.
So samaya mudra is to be in this moment. Ordinarily you think that past, present and future are three divisions of time; that is not the Tantra understanding. Tantra says: Only present is time. Past is not, it has already gone. Future is not, it has not come yet. Only the present is. To be in the present is to be really in time. Otherwise you are either in memory or you are in dreams, both of which are delusions. So the third seal is broken by being in the now.

The fourth seal is called mahamudra, the great gesture, the innermost, like space. Now, purest space has remained. Action, knowing, time, space — these are the four seals. Space is your innermost core, the hub of the wheel, or the centre of the cyclone. In your innermost emptiness is space, sky. These are the three layers: of time, of knowing, of action. These are the four seals to be broken.

Excerpted from The Tantra Vision Vol 2, courtesy Osho International Foundation. www.osho.com

July 13, 2007

I just loved this poem!!!!!

Its just about time
To give up on this mess
Am I nothing to you?
Is our love just a test?

I dig up my razor
Cry another tear
Wishing to cut
Trying not to fear

Youll leave me I know
What else is there to do?
When Im a hopeless romantic
And I dont realize my cue

I run away from the truth
Thing to believe
That I actually had a chance
But you only deceive

Ive been trying to give up
Of this cutting all year
But I need your support
Instead of leaving me here

If you dont want me or love me
Just say thats its true
So you get on with life
Even thought Ill die too

If you did
You would call and care
But instead I call your friends
Just to hear your not there

If I needed you at all
This would be the time
Cuz Im struggling to stay away
From that razor of mine

I love you, I do
With all of my heart
But a relationship takes two
And were tearing apart

June 6, 2007

There is no heaven on earth, but there are pieces of it - MUNNAR

There is no heaven on earth, but there are pieces of it - MUNNAR

TRAIN JOURNEY TO ERNAKULAM - 30 December 2006
I had visited Munnar from 30 December 2006 to 4 January 2007. I was travelling alone to Munnar and it was the best experience of my life. My friends and cousins had gone for Kodaikanal Trek of YHAI and were meeting me at Munnar in Misha. I could'nt go for trek because of my exam which got postponed from 6 Dec 2006 to 27 Dec 2006. I boarded the train- Mangla Lksdp 2618 from Kalyan at 10.30 am on 30 December 2006. The actual arrival time is 8.50 am but the train was late. There was a south Indian family in my compartment - Husband and wife. Uncle was working with railways at Bhusawal so new hindi well. He explained me all about Kerala, so I enjoyed my travelling to Ernakulam a lot. He showed me plantations of various kinds and also gave me a lot of information on the culture of Kerala.I reached Ernakulam at 12.45 pm since the train was late 3 hrs.

BUS JOURNEY FROM ERNAKULAM TO MUNNAR - 31 December 2006
I was a little afraid as I was travelling to another state for the first time completely alone. But I was comfortable as I had done my homework on net and a lot of inputs from uncle in train helped me. I took a rickshaw from station to bus stand. But the KSRTC bus was at 5.00 pm. So I took a private bus from private buses bus stand. The rickshaw wala left me at the bus stop and showed me the bus also, as language on buses is in malayalam.
My bus started from Ernakulam at 1.10 pm and the conductor could not understand English or Hindi, but still he explained to me that the bus will leave me at Adimali and from there the other bus will take me to munnar. I reached Munnar at 6.00 pm. The transportation is very cheap in Kerala. I had paid total Rs. 66 from Ernakulam to Munnar(50+16). The route was beautiful and I enjoyed my travelling in bus also a lot. The people of Kerala are very nice and girls feel very safe. The bus conductor left me in front of Misha Holiday Home were my friends and cousins were waiting for me.

31 December 2006 - Evening
We were now 6 of them ready to explore Munnar's beauty to its fullest. Myself, my brother Pratik, his college friend Dhramveer, our cousin sister Pallavi and my friend Hiren.
In the evening we visited 3-4 tours and travels offices to rent a bike for the next day. But we were a little dissappointed to know that there were only 2 bikes available and we wanted 3 bikes. Then finally we booked a Sumo at DTPC tourist information centre for Rs. 1,300 for full day. Then we had our dinner at Saravna Bhavan and returned at Misha Holiday Home. Played cards and waited for the new year bash. At 12.00 am we cut the cake and welcomed the year 2007 at the most beautiful place Munnar.

1 January 2007

We all got up at 5.00 am for the morning walk
except Pratik, who was enjoying his sleep to its fullest. It was the most wonderful beginning of the year 2007 for all of us. While returning from the walk we saw a beautiful garden of DTPC. The gate was closed but we were very much tempted to go inside as it was too beautiful with fog all over from the flowing river. Finally, we climbed across the wooden rods and went inside. There were beautiful flowers and plants inside. The purple colour bushes looked spectacular. We had some photographs and were off back to Misha. At 8.30 the Sumo arrived and we all exicitedly left for Munnar sight-seeing.

1. Nayamakad Water Falls:
Nayamakad is a land of breath taking water falls. The water cascade down a hill from a height of about 1600 metres. It is 8 kms from Munnar and takes 20 minutes to reach there. This was our first destination.

2. Anaimudi View:
It is the south India's highest peak - 8841 ft. 2695 mtrs. It shape is like the face of an elephant. It can be seen on the way to Eravikulam National Park.

3. Eravikulam National Park(Rajamalai):
Our jeep left us outside since inside we have to travel in the vehicle of the forest. The entry fee is Rs. 15/- per person and Rs.20/- for the bus fare. If you are taking the camera inside Rs. 25/- extra are charged. We sat in the bus and were droped inside the park from where you have to walk along the road to the top. This National Park lies at the crest of the Anamalai ranges near
Munnar spreading over 97 Sq. Kms. of evergreen tropical forest. High mountainous range at the foot of South India's Highest Peak Anamudi boasts of some of the most splendrous scenery. The mountains are also covered with the blanket of "Neelakkurinji". This is a wild life sanctuary and home of the Nilgiri Thars-a rare species of mountain goats seen along the sheer rocky slopes of the mountains. We enjoyed seeing the Thars, male and female species.
There is also a museum by Sri. Surendranathan Asari, F.S. which gives a lot more information about the park with some very interesting photographs and paintings. The ticket for the museum is just Rs. 5/-. We had bhuta, watermelon and keri down and headed for our next destination.

4. Luckam Water Falls:
Our next destination was Luckam Water Falls where we enjoyed the most. The entry fee is Rs. 5/- per person. A good place for waterfall bathing since the water is very pure and untouched. Our driver told us that the water has medicinal values and is the most purest form. Pratik, Hiren and Dhram trekked a little more and reached the top from where the water was flowing. But when they went up they saw that was not the start of the fall but from down we felt that it is the starting point of the fall.

5. Sandalwood & Bamboo forest(Marayoor):
This is the only place in Kerala that has a natural growth of Sandal Wood Trees. It was very beautiful and I saw the greenery paths which we see in the calenders. All the trees are numbered and our driver showed us a sandalwood tree bcutting a little part of it. The smell was very nice and strong. He said you cannot cut and take it with you since it is not allowed. The maximum sandal wood is smugled outside to foreign countries.

6. Childrens Park Marayoor:
This is a small park spread across a hectare of land under the canopy of a single Banyan tree.
Outside we drank Nariyal Pani and headed for Chinnar as they don't give entry after 3.30 pm.

7. Chinnar Wildlife Sanctuary, Chinnar:
The last destination on the Munnar-Coimbatore Direction is the Chinnar Wildlife Sanctuary - 63 kms from Munnar. There are a lot of monkeys here and one needs to be very careful if you are eating anything. Here you need to wait for the guide who takes us to the trek in the jungle. The office opened again at 3.00 and everyone rushed inside for booking. The entry fee is Rs. 60/- per person for Indians and Rs. 100/- for foreigners. First they were not allowing us telling us we were late but we were there before 3.00 pm. Our driver convinced them anyhow and we finally headed for the trek in the jungle with a guide and a German couple also accompanied us. We trekked for 3 hrs but could only spot a deer that too very far. I enjoyed the trek as the route was very nice and it is fun to walk without any baggages on your back. According to the guide a bysan can be spotted but we could'nt see any.

8. Muniyara:
On the way back to Munnar we went to see Muniyaras, the caves with murals and relics from the New Stone age civilization.

After a great sight-seeing tour we headed back to Munnar from Muniyara, it was getting dark and the temperature was dropping down. There was a lot of fog on the way and we were wondering how can the driver drive so smoothly. We could'nt see anything and were praying God so that we reach safely. It was 2 hrs drive back to Munnar through the unseen ghats hided in fog and dark evening.
Finally we reached Munnar at 9.00 pm and had dinner at Sarvana Bhavan. Then we got a good news that there were three bikes available for tomorrow at Travel Inn Tours and Travels. Mr. Mooragan told us to come in the morning at 9.00 am on 2 Jan and collect the bikes. The rent was Rs. 300/- per bike. Dreaming about tomorrows Mountain Biking we all slept waiting eagerly to explore the other half of Munnar on bike.

2 January 2007
All of us got up at 7.00 am and got ready by 9.00 am for the activity we were most eagerly waiting - Mountain Biking. This was the first time we all were exploring a new place on bikes. The most excited was Dhramveer. So all of us started our journey at 9.30 am from Misha Holiday Home. Dhram and Pratik went at 9.00 am and got the bikes. We had 1 freedom and 2 CBZ.
The biking experience was superb. We all were enjoying the ride and the nature the way we had never enjoyed before in our life. You feel as if you are taking a bike ride in the heaven. All clouds besides you, greenery all around you, the pure air you feel during the ride......................
Difficult to explain in words.

1. Kundaly Lake:
First we planned to go to Kundaly Lake to avoid the other tourists rush. To our surprise that was one of the wisest decision we had made. We booked 1
row boat and 1 paddle boat since two row boats were not available. The rates were Rs. 30/- per person for row boat and Rs. 60/- for the whole paddle boat. We took 3 row boat tickets and 1 paddle boat ticket. In between the lake we kept on exchanging the places between the two boats. So all of us experienced the fun of row boat. It not so easy to move the row boat as we feel. For about 15 minutes Pratik, Dhram and I were moving round and round at the same place in between the lake. Finally, Hiren came in our row boat and both Hiren and Pratik moved the boat in the direction we desired. Finally, it was Pallavi's turn to experience the row boat and my chance for paddling the paddle boat. When the 30 minutes ended we all did not realise at all. The best part was all of us rushing to give the boats back after 30 minutes having a racing who reaches first.
Then we had pani puri at a stall there and it was very tasty to our surprise. We had pani puri in north when we went for Himalayan trekking and it is the worst pani puri on the planet but the south pani puri was very tasty - a mixture of dahi puri and pani puri but no dahi was there inside. The Kundaly Dam is also having a look.

2. Top Station:
Our next destination was top station. The most beautiful scenery uptill now we had seen here. It had the best natural plantation and greenery. You also need to buy a ticket here to walk down 400 mts from main gate. It is Rs. 20/- per person. The best place to see the Neelakurinji flowers and have a feel of it. Top Station also offers a panaromic view of the neighbouring state of Tamil Nadu. The views those are seen from the top of this hill will give you unforgetable picture in your mind. Climbed back and had bhel which we made there with the things we had adding sauce, onion & lemom to kurmura.

3. Madupatty Dam:
Then we headed towards Matupatty Dam. On the way to Madupatty we had beautiful photographs with the woman working there. She was shaping the tea leaves with a machine. Enjoyed every moment of the ride and finally reached Madupatty.
There we booked the ticket for a speed boat for Rs. 250/- only for 20 minutes and headed for an adventurous ride on a speed boat. The photographs well justify our enjoyment.

4. Lockhart Gap & Rock Cave:
Then from Madupatty we came back to Munnar - Misha Holiday Home to refresh and planned to go to Lockhart Gap. Since we had to return the bikes at 6.00 pm, we were confused to go or not as it was already 5.30 pm and Lockhart was 14 kms and our petrol indicator was also only a little far away from E. But finally we geared up again and with full enthusiasm left for Lockhart Gap.
We wanted to experience the bike ride after dark and we enjoyed that a lot. The way to Lockhart Gap was a little confusing since people on the way were not aware of the place. Finally reached Lockhart, had sandwiches and icecreams there enjoying the cloudy scene and shivering as all of us were feeling cold now. On the way we met two bikers, husband and wife who were travelling on their bikes form North to South. They had carried all their luggages on the bike, both were foreigners. We were imagning what an adventure it would be to explore India on bike. May be someday we also plan it, not may be we will plan it.

At 7.00 pm we returned the bikes and went for some shopping in Munnar. The shop recommended to us by our taxi driver was Krishna. We purchased tea Packets, coffee packets, face packs and cleansers from there. Then we had dinner at Sarvana Bhavan and headed to Misha. At the end of the day after so much travelling on bike nobody was still tired. This day was the best start for our new year 2007. God's art of nature is the best art in this world which only eyes, mind and heart can capture. No photos can do justice to it. Finally all were off to sleep to get up at 4.00 am in the morning.

3 January 2007
We reached the Bus Stop at 5.00 am and the bus came sharp on its time - 5.15 am. We reached Ernakulam at 10.00 am. Deposited our luggage in the cloak room for 2 hrs and went to explore Ernakulam. We went to an Exhibition Meghna 2006 or 2007, I don't exactly remember which we had seen on the way to the station. The handicrafts collection was too good. We purchased ice-cream cups and tray for our house.
At 12.00 we boarded the train Mangla Lksdp 2618, whose departure was at 12.50. I cannot ever forget such a beautiful trip to Munnar with so much adventure and fun. It was just 2 days in Munnar, but you feel so rejuvenated and full of energy to take up the challenges of 2007. I feel India is the most best country to explore. It has immense beauty hidden in it and the hill station - Munnar is such one place.

4 January 2007
In the afternoon reached Kalyan at 2.30 pm and now waiting to reach home and tell Mom and Dad about all the experience we all had together. Waiting for next such adventure!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

February 12, 2007

What Successful HR Executives Do In Their First 30 Days In A New Job!

by Alan L. Collins
Successful new HR executives don't waste any time getting up to speed when they move into new jobs. They recognize that this is the best time to lay the foundation for impacting and influencing their organizations and building important relationships in the months ahead. If you find yourself in this position, here's what you should do:

Success Tip #1: Hold meetings on the business/culture with your manager, direct reports, and your HR clients.
Discuss the mission, goals, and objectives of the Company or division or client group you are joining as a new HR Executive. Establish how you and your new HR team fit into the overall company.
Get feedback about the unit you are inheriting. Discuss operating issues, resources, people strengths, weaknesses, expectations of clients and team members, history of the group. Objectivity is important -- be careful not to be biased by untested opinions.
Broaden your perspective of the job by getting a description of the other locations and functions you will work with. Review organization charts where possible. Discuss:
What the locations/functions do
How they do it
How your responsibilities fit in with those of the other locations/functions
Discuss how the formal and informal systems work. Also, have your manager pair you with a peer or colleague who can "show you the ropes" and answer questions. Build a solid support system you can draw on.
Learn the informal expectations people have about the style of how things are done. Identify behaviors and actions that will cause friction between you and other individuals/groups.
Invest as much time learning the climate and culture of the company and your team as you do developing functional knowledge. Knowing what to do is not enough to succeed. You must also know how to work within the personality of the company or your team.
Discuss areas where you should initiate reforms or make changes. Also, identify places where it’s more important to conform to the style of the company than to make changes.

Success Tip #2: Discuss expectations about performance and management practices with your manager.
The process of clarifying needs and expectations begins between you and your new manager during your initial interview about the job. And, it should continue with your boss, direct reports, and your clients throughout your career.
Re-clarify specifically what your new manager expects from you. Make sure your charter is explicit around problems, people, and products/services you and your team will be providing.
Discuss again expectations both of you have about the working relationship. (e.g., What do you need from your manager to feel comfortable? What support and guidance do you need?) Periodically renegotiate your expectations.
Reconfirm with your boss what, in his or her opinion is, good practice (e.g., tight control, loose control, style of decision-making group vs. individual, etc.). Style issues that come from differing personal belief and perceptions account for a large portion of the problems new managers’ experience.
Assess the appropriateness of your managerial style against the needs of the situation and the needs and expectations of those you manage. Also, assess the fit of your practice with the management practices of your predecessor.
Recognize there are different ways to get thing done. Your new manager’s style may differ from yours. Negotiate the latitude you need to act using your own best judgment.
Be patient-recognize taking charge of a new unit takes time. You may not reach full maturing and productivity for some time.

Success Tip #3 Agree on how you’ll establish yourself within the organization.
Soothe any "ruffled feathers" that may exist if you were brought into your new HR role above someone who thought they should have had your job. Position yourself with your staff and the people you will manage. Ask your boss to position you before your arrival to minimize rumors and speculation and upon arrival as a "getting to know you."
Jointly identify something you can bring to the party that adds value in the eyes of subordinates/colleagues.
Introduce yourself to key players/clients whose support and sponsorship is needed. Describe the value you think you add to the operation. (e.g., Answer the question – "What do you have to offer you clients?)
Find out from you new manager which colleagues/peer are good resources to draw on. Don’t hesitate to use their skills and abilities.
Meet informally with your staff and others you’ll need for support to get to know them. The earlier in the orientation period you meet. The better. People personally support those they see as "friend’s and allies." People distrust the motives of those they don’t know.
Establish credibility with key people who can support what you need to do. Identify a knowledgeable person who can act as your coach and sponsor.
Hold a staff meeting on your first day to:
Express your enthusiasm and optimism about the new HR assignment.
Share background information about yourself.
Discuss your style of working
Share initial expectations you have of your staff.
Make beginning work assignments (e.g., collect background information you need).
Take time to learn about the new organization before making decisions and acting-learn, about the products, the people, and the problems. Ask experienced subordinates and colleagues their opinions about problems/opportunities. The greater the difference between the old and new company, the longer the learning curve.
Provide credit and recognition to the group for what they did well in the past. No one likes to think everything they’ve done up to the point of your taking charge has been in vain.
Review and discuss individual performance objectives with. Each staff member. Where needed, renegotiate your staff’s performance objectives so everyone knows what you expect and how their performance ties to what you’re trying to achieve.

Success Tip #4: If possible, arrange a meeting with your predecessor.
Take advantage of any overlap in time that exists between when you start and the previous person leaves. Meet to discuss the operation and share thoughts.
Ask the departing HR Leader to provide an overview of the job and schedule a "get acquainted" meeting to discuss the operation. Review:
List of operating issues
Strengths, weaknesses, opportunities of the unit
Key Human Resource issues
Important contacts
History of the group
Jointly review the operating issues of the unit around people, products/services, and resources. Prepare a list of the short-term, mid-term and long-term issues you need to address. Ask the departing employee for beginning recommendations on how to address the issues. Record actions already taken that set precedent for future action.
(Where appropriate) Walk through the unit with the exiting employee and learn the important parts of the operation. Stop periodically for introductions and short informal chats with members of the staff.
Discuss the performance objectives the departing employee has been working on. Review where things stand against each objective and what remains to be done.
Ask the outgoing employee to transmit his/her view of what the group can become or can do.
Don’t feel obligated to use all of what is offered.
Ask the departing HR Leader to review the Human Resources issues with you
Discuss the Human Resource decisions you need to make in the first six months. (e.g.
performance evaluations due, probationary action pending, required Management Planning
Reviews, pay decisions, etc.)
Review the past performance and strengths/developmental needs of each member of
your new group. Be careful not to be biased by the departing manager-"consider just the facts.
Study the files the departing employee has kept on Human Resource issues (e.g., critical
incident files, salary histories, past performance appraisals, management planning worksheets, job descriptions.)
Acquaint yourself with the help your Human Resources representative can provide.
Develop a Support System
Together develop a list of key clients/peers you should get to know within the first month. Identify and list the resources and support each can provide.
Find out who is a knowledge person you can use as a sounding board when questions arise.
Use the, exiting employee as an on-going support system. Stay in touch after he/she leaves. Don’t hesitate to ask if there are questions. (If possible) arrange informal get-togethers (e.g. coffees/lunches) after the current employee leaves to talk about how it’s

Success Tip #5: Jointly develop written performance objectives.
Clarify with your new boss expectations he/she has about what is effective performance. Set goals and objectives to describe in specific and measurable terms what you are to accomplish. Without common understanding, each side in the relationship inevitably will stop trusting the other.
Test your assumption about how things should operate. Look at the operation with a fresh perspective. Offer new ideas about what to do to bolster performance.
Jointly develop a list of initial work assignments to guide your efforts during the first several weeks in the job.
Involve yourself in a high profile project you can succeed at quickly to build personal confidence and credibility.

Success Tip #6: Negotiate the support and expectations you need.
Get your new boss’s help in buffering anything that takes you away from the task of getting settled-in and taking charge of the operation.
Negotiate exceptions that allow you time to build momentum within the group. However, be sensitive about how intense to negotiate and when to withdraw.

Success Tip #7: Jointly prepare an individual development plan.
Jointly author a plan that describes the knowledge, skills, and development experiences you need during the first year.
Agree with your manager on the time you need to learn about the new job. Take every opportunity to learn more about the new operation. In the initial take charge period, learn from your mistakes. Keep your boss informed to avoid second-guessing or premature judgement of your actions.

Success Tip #8: Establish an accountability to talk with clients.
Talk with your clients to find out how the group is perceived and how well it's servicing the organization.
Whenever possible, work on needed changes by using a task force of those the change affects. This increases the chances everyone knows what to do. It also increases ownership of the changes you decide to make.
Obtain feedback on planned changes, even if you're unable to involve others in the decision-making upfront.
Sell your new ideas/proposals by first determining the needs of clients and those whose commitment you want. Show clearly, how your ideas/proposals meet those needs. Pre-sell the key decision-makers. Sell new ideas in small manageable chunks to allow people time to get use to them.

Success Tip #9: Develop an initial "map" and list of priorities.
Develop energy and enthusiasm within the group as early as possible.
Develop a rallying cry, theme, or challenge to unite the group.
Sponsor a group celebration.
Champion a cause team members are excited about.
Build in lots of involvement for members of your new staff (more than usual). For instance include them in:
Planning
New Decisions
Discussions on how to execute plans/changes
Develop initial priorities and a "map" to guide you. Remain flexible and change direction as you learn more about the organization.
Avoid going for the home-run hit on early decisions. Recognize you’ll have to redo later some of the changes you make in the early stages of taking charge.
Recognize complex problems require some immediate, stop-gap action, but may also take several attempts to find the underlying causes. In short, experiment ("do it, try it, fix it") when handling complex problems.
Initially, act to correct near-term problems where there's good support or where there's some clear need to act. Avoid making premature decisions on long-term issues before you know all the facts. It’s more important to establish a track record on smaller issues than to make your mark on major issues before you have the important facts. Managers brought in to "turn around the operation" sometimes fall victim of this need to act.
As an insider taking charge of a new operation, test your assumptions about key people and the problems of the unit. It is especially important to question perceptions and beliefs about individuals you’ve worked with. Change in structure and reporting relationships change personal relationships. Be willing to renegotiate old relationships as well as form new ones.
As an insider, look at the job as an outsider might. Be innovative-be willing to abandon the status quo. Adapt goals and strategies to the new challenges of a growing business.
Figure out the pressure points in the new unit. Focus the group’s energy on 1-2 carefully chosen projects that improve performance and provide an early success. Choose projects based on importance and the readiness of the group (e.g. creativity, energy, and determination to succeed). Take care of the rest of the unit’s responsibilities on a business-as-usual basis. Resist the temptation to do everything at once.
Exercise the latitude the organization gives you as a new manager. Be willing to take a few risks. Determine if others will give you the benefit of the doubt if things don’t work out.
Develop written plans for the hi-impact, hi-visibility projects. Let people know what part they play so they can commit themselves to the task. With the group's help, spell out who's to do what, when. and the authority and responsibility of those accountable. Describe the desired results and how you'll measure progress and results. Get feedback from your team. Be clear on who has sponsored past practices and policies and why before making changes.
Take initial action where you have the most functional knowledge.
Allow time between the changes you make to be sure they accomplish what you intended. Those affected by the changes may also need time to get used to the new ways of doing things. Remember: "The more radical the change and the less people know of your motives, the longer it takes for them to adjust."
Establish check-points for feedback on how well the changes are working.
Share credit for success on important projects with subordinates and peers who "help make it happen."

Success Tip #10: Hold a meeting with Human Resources on key systems (Note: HR needs HR too!!)
After the settling in period, find out more about the Human Resource systems you need to use in the first year. (e.g., Performance Planning and Review, Management Planning, Pay Systems, Management Development Opportunities/Programs, etc.) Identify the Human Resources people who can provide additional information, guidance, and support.
Work with the Human Resources group in managing personnel issues. Take time to get acquainted with the Human Resources person assigned to your group – if there is one. Learn how the various Human Resources systems work.

Success Tip #11: Hold discussions/meetings to establish your group's now direction.
In the early stages of taking charge, involve the members of your team in defining the group’s direction. The direction describes where the unit needs to get and how the team needs to work together to get there. Frequently hold discussions with the team to redefine the direction. Check what else you need to do to bring the team together. (Bringing the team together includes things you’ll do more of/less of as well as things they’ll do to promote better working relations).
Give credit and respect to the old-timers and experienced people in the group. Seek their opinions and listen to their recommendations. Develop your staff as a group of allies. Let them guide you through the initial period of taking charge, until you can learn the important facts about the new operation. Some practical strategies include:
Ask lots of questions…be sure you understand the answers.
Let people know you understand and appreciate their viewpoint.
Build upon other’s ideas versus killing them.
Implement the ideas you get from people within your group.
Provide public recognition for good ideas from the group.

Success Tip #12: Make the staffing/structure changes necessary to execute your new direction.
Avoid quick changes in staffing and structure just for the sake of saying you've taken action. Explore uncertainties and concerns you have about staff members and the structure of the organization with your boss and others. Assess the staffing and structure of your organization against the yardstick of its ability to carry out the new direction.

Success Tip #13: Re-immerse yourself in learning more about the operation.
Take time to reassess the initial assumptions you made when you inherited the job. Periodically immerse yourself in learning more about the operation. Frequently reassess how it's going and identify needed fine-tuning.

Success Tip 14: Schedule periodic sessions for feedback and coaching.
Establish frequent opportunities to discuss with your manager the details of changes you are proposing. Augment your limitations in experience or skills with coaching. (Don’t confuse coaching with "Here's how you should do it.")
Anticipate potential problems you will have because you lack company experience. Develop adequate back-up support.
Solicit frequent, frank, informal, timely feedback on how things are going during break-in period as natural opportunities occur.
Informally talk to your peers, colleagues, and clients about how it's going during the take-charge phase. Learn from the positive feedback you hear.
Ask your new boss to provide early-warning to you when problems exist or as issues arise.
Following these guidelines will put you well on the path towards realizing your goal of getting off to a fast start as a new HR executive in a new role.

About the Author: Alan L. Collins is Vice President - Human Resources for a global, well-known consumer products company. His accountabilities include developing strategies for attracting and retaining talent, building organization capability and leading large-scale change and transformation.

February 11, 2007

Somewhere… Someone is Waiting for You

Have you ever wondered? Have you ever thought that somewhere, somebody is waiting for you? Yes, there are people who wait for you; at different time of a day; on different days; at different stages of life. Purpose can be different; needs can be different; reasons can be different but they wait for you…they are waiting for you; for different things; with lots of hopes and expectations. In fact, they always wait for you.
This is not an article. This is not a note or write-up. This is not a story. This is just a thought. These are just feelings.
Let me explain who is waiting for you and why.
Who is waiting for you? People who are waiting for you can be divided into three different categories:
1) People close to you, preferably your family members
2) People known to you - your friends, relatives, colleagues
3) People not known to you - your customers, anybody that you don’t know about; you might be meeting them for first time or you might just pass by.

Why people are waiting?
Different people have different reason to wait. Love, Life, Hope, Dreams and Happiness are some reasons that people wait for you. For example, Patients are waiting for Doctor, medicine and treatment. Students are waiting for Teachers, knowledge and result.

1) You have interviewed someone and have told that you will call back; that person is waiting for your call. The ray of hope that you have given to that person, his dreams are linked with that. Ask any fresher or any person who is jobless, what does it mean.
2) Its month end, people are waiting for their salaries. They usually get their salaries by 30th of every month but now its 4th of next month.
3) It is that time of the year, when people get appraised for their performance. They feel that after appraisal, there will be increase in salary; there will be few rewards and there might be promotions (Usually that is what happens every year). You are delaying it. People are waiting for you.
4) You are a service provider. Your customers have some problems; they want to give some feedback…they are waiting for you.
5) Someone related to you is in problem. They want you to listen to them. Help them in finding a solution. They are waiting for you.
6) Just your presence around them, charge-up some people. It automatically brings smile on their face. It makes them feel important, wanted and happy. They are waiting for you.
7) You are a hope for someone. You are a source of inspiration for someone. Your presence, your kind gesture, your thoughts, your knowledge, can help someone to move an inch closer to his or her dream.
8) You have committed your time to someone, that person is waiting.
9) You are a leader. You promised some facilities to your people. Time is running. You have not fulfilled your promises. After elections, you have not even met your people; those people who have helped you to win. They are waiting for you.
10) You are not at home, your parents are waiting for you; spouse is waiting for you; kids are waiting for you; your friends are waiting for you.

You are a source of inspiration and motivation for people around you. No one but you can help them in realizing their dreams. Because of you, someone is having a ray of hope in his life. Some people are able to eat and sleep, because you are there. You bring joy, hope and happiness in others’ life. You are the only reason for many people to smile and cheer-up. Yes, you are special. You are unique. You are different. Love the way you are…as you are.
With so many people waiting for you; with so many lives linked with you…it is just obvious for you to take very good care of yourself.